I want what you want, because I know what you want, and because I know that, what you want, is what I want.
Delineated in this tortured statement is the “object that brings everyone into relation”. We all want the same object, an object that cannot be practically named (with a referential way of talking) because it is not a thing.
What is the advantage? If the object survives, we survive.
What niche does this represent?
What label will suffice? Consider the amazing adaptations of our biological world. The wings of birds. The teeth of the shark. They are wonders.
So we are wondrously adapted. This is our niche.
Mimesisconstrained, the coordination of souls willing to sacrifice themselves for the “object that brings all into relation”, labels the adaptation.